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I grew up in the very kind of kid-walkability neighborhood you're talking about, where children & teenagers can run around freely, & there's plenty of space, but there's nowhere much to go but the 7-11. I think that's the typical upper middle class white bread suburban childhood, right?

Whereas you grew up in walkable-for-everybody NYC, right? So. There are some problems you probably haven't thought about.

It's not healthy for a neighborhood to be inhabited ONLY by children. There should be adult-with-adult interaction going on the public spaces, too. Which happens a lot less if all the adults leave their houses only to get in their cars, because everywhere they need to go except the 7-11, or a walk around the block, requires a car.

This is bad for the adults. You should know your neighbors. How else are you going to love them?

But also it's bad for the children to be in a child-dominated environment. They shouldn't running around in packs raising themselves & each other, and they shouldn't be in a space that has only consumption in it, no production (zoning strikes again!).

It would much better for them to be in a small town or a corner of NYC with with Norman Rockwell drugstores with soda fountains where they could get after school jobs (as in It's a Wonderful Life), be monitored and mentored by adults, see the adults working, etc.

Also they would not feel like they were growing up in a barren suburban white bread wasteland, hanker for connections and diversity and an environment with something significant--not just leisure and children raising themselves in packs--going on it it, and have to become hipsters (or ex-LDS ex-Catholic cool people who vacation in Paris, or similar) in order to give their lives meaning.

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Well put. Everything you say is true, except that we moved from NYC to a small town suburb in Westchester when I was 9 (my oldest brother was 14), and we could walk to three pizza places and the movie theater where our job is. Not all suburbia is created equal.

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